Three Way Lover Santa Muerte Magick

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This is a candle ritual designed at the request of a reader - an interesting request and a creative challenge I couldn't refuse. This formula is intended for use by consenting adults, where each person of a romantic couple wants to invite a third person into the relationship for sex.

Don't risk infection - always use protection!

Primary Use:

For couples looking to spice things up, where BOTH want to experience a menage a trois.

You Will Need - 
 
Herbs - 

• Lavender - to attract sexual lust.
• ​Catnip - to trigger a sexual attraction.​
• Ginger - to attract adventures and new experiences.

Other Items - 

• ​Mortar and Pestle - for grinding your herbal ingredients into a powder. ​
• 1 Red Genital Candle - to serve as the magickal representation of the lover that the couple wants to attract. Use the masculine candle to attract a man, and the feminine candle to attract a woman.
• ​Thin Etching Tool - like a pick or pin, to etch into the outside of your genital candle.
• ​Burn Plate or Bowl - to hold your genital candle while it burns.

• Avocado Carrier Oil - corresponding to matters of lust and physical beauty, used here to attract a purely sexual lover.

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Candle Preparation

To start, both members of the couple etches his or her full name into the surface of the genital candle. This petition requires the proper intent of the whole couple seeking the third partner, so this petition won't be effective if one partner tries to etch both names in secret.

From here, one partner can complete the rest of the petition alone, or one can complete the petition while the other meditates on the intent of the petition while reciting the Three Way Lover magick prayer included below.

At your Santa Muerte altar, place the candle on your burn plate and set aside.

​Now grind approximately equal parts lavender, catnip, and ginger in your mortar and pestle. Ginger is often sold as whole root or in small chips, which may incorporate easier if cut or sliced into small pieces. You ultimately want enough ground herbs to cover the outside of your candle. The mixture is complete when you are satisfied with its consistency. 

Next, lightly coat the entire outside of your genital candle in avocado carrier oil, then sprinkle your ground herb mixture over all areas of the oil coated candle.

​Throughout the process of creating your candle, unless you have another person to meditate and recite prayer for you, focus on your intent of having an enjoyable three-way sexual experience with your regular partner and repeat the Three Way Lover Santa Muerte magick prayer (see below).

​​Using Your Genital Candle

Light your prepared genital candle at your Santa Muerte altar and recite the Three Way Lover Santa Muerte magick prayer below. Let the candle burn on your altar until complete.

Discarding of Your Genital Candle

When you've worked your magick with a genital candle, and the candle has burned to completion, you may dispose of what remains from this petition using the instructions outlined in my post How to Dispose of Magick Trash.

 Three Way Lover Santa Muerte Magick Prayer

"Holy Death all dressed in red,
bring a third to share our bed.

Hot and sweaty fun we seek,
a third wheel we now receive.

Bless us in this search of lust,
Holy Death who does not judge.

In your name, amen."